Motherhood and womanhood and the social ill of father absence in the South African context: A practical theological engagement

Abstract

Over the past decades, it has become evident in numerous families that the societal roles of mothers and fathers have shifted immensely. As a result, many scholars, researchers, and authors decided to study the various components of motherhood. Hence, the primary goal of this paper is to comprehend the phenomenal role of motherhood in society and the acceptance of this role within the domestic domain. In many cases, becoming a mother was not the mother’s decision; rather, it was a response to sociocultural pressure that held women[1] accountable for the care of children. Women had distinct motherhood experiences, and frequently, these were kept secret from the family and society. In addition to the issues associated with father absence and gender-based violence, mothers often face pressure and difficulties while attempting to imagine themselves in a morally acceptable motherhood role. Furthermore, mothers have a very negative perception of motherhood, particularly in a highly demanding patriarchal society. Based on a culturally accepted belief that requires mothers to devote themselves to their children and set aside their own needs, society has constructed the ideal concept of a perfect mother.